FLESH SERIES: Boundaries in Dating

The concept of dating is one of the most widely remarked upon and questioned aspects of a Christian walk. Much of the questioning comes from the modern forms of dating as compared to the contextual traditions of biblical times. Although some biblical testimonies of marriage are culturally different than today, the Bible is relevant in providing foundational pieces of truth for a Godly marriage.

A Godly relationship, simply put, is one in which both parties continuously pursue the Lord, but the aspects of living out such a call can be very dynamic. When two persons enter into a relationship, whether it be through marriage or dating , there are two souls involved.

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” 1 Corinthians ESV / 2, helpful votes. Helpful Not​.

The same principle holds true for women who find loving and responsible husbands. Marriages are not only a basis for happiness, they offer us longer and better-quality lives. They are also the building blocks of communities, societies and, ultimately, civilizations. The foundation for a good marriage is laid long before the wedding ceremony. Parents should determine when their children are ready to date based on their maturity and readiness to accept responsibility for their actions.

When we first begin dating , it should be for the purpose of social development-that is, learning about the opposite sex and the many differences in human personality, values and temperament.